心·飞

把心装上翅膀

打开牢笼

让她飞

在天空翱翔

看着地面的双和对

等待那神秘的

期待那未知的

总有一天

那枝箭会射中

翅膀会收拢

心会停下

唯留悸动

About Date

Guy

What’s the guy thinking when he asks a girl out on a date?
1. “I really like you!”
2. “She seems decent. I should get to know her more.”
3. “Too much money and nowhere to spend.”
4. “Hmm… what to do tonight? Maybe I should ask someone out.”

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Girl

Why’d the girl go on a date with the guy?
1. “Ahh… I like him!”
2. “He seems like a decent guy. I should give him a chance.”
3. “Somebody is paying for the dinner. Why not?”
4. “Nobody else is asking me out. I don’t want to spend the night alone!”

Guy

What’d the guy think when the girl says OK?
1. “She likes me too!”
2. “Maybe she’s got a bit feeling for me.”
3. “Is she just using me?”

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Girl

Why’d the girl say no?
1. “I am not interested in you.”
2. “OMG! I thought we were just friends.”
3. “I’ve got other better candidates. You are just not good enough.”

Guy

What’d the guy think when the girl rejects him?
1. “Oh boy! She doesn’t like me!”
2. “Does she need more time?”
3. “Is she seeing someone else?”
4. “Heartbroken!”

三从四德

何谓三从四德？

古时，三从为“未嫁从父、出嫁从夫、夫死从子“。四德乃“妇德、妇言、妇容、妇功”。

现在，三从四德有了几个新的定义。
1.
三从
从不温柔，从不体贴，从不讲理
四德
说不得，打不得，骂不得，惹不得

2.
三从
从不洗衣，从不做饭，从不拖地
四德
老婆化妆要等得，老婆花钱要舍得，老婆发脾气忍得，老婆生日要记得

3.
三从
太太出门要跟从，太太命令要服从，太太说错要盲从
四德
太太化妆要等得，太太生日要记得，太太打骂要忍得，太太花钱要舍得。

哈哈，时代大不同了！
男士們，加油！

…

I wonder how I can undo it.
This is perhaps the least desirable situation I can get into.
And it sucks big time!

…

There are a lot of things in life that once you lose them, you can never get them back.
Likewise, there are a lot of persons in life that once you leave them, they will never come back.
What remains is the remnants of memories.

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Many a time we regret the decisions we make, for the consequences are grave and unbearable.
Only at that moment we wish we could go back in time, but we know that is not possible.

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Learn to let go.
Learn to move on.
Learn to wake up to reality.
Learn to stand on your own.
This is life – it’s all about learning.
Just like everything else about learning, there is always a learning curve.
It may take some time, but you will get there eventually.

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Always remember – you can choose to live happily or miserably.
You can choose to soar or sink.
You can choose to flourish or flounder.
The choice is yours.

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Maybe the awakening is just around the corner.
Maybe the epiphany will strike you when you wake up tomorrow.
You just can’t give up because if you do, they will never happen.

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You ain’t need no one.